ChastiKey New Keyholder Guidelines

• Creating locks - Start off with short term locks one - six hours to a day. Don't disable Emergency Keys unless you're well known. It can be seen as a red flag for many lockees. Keep in mind lockees are taking a gamble when locking up in your locks for the first time and put a lot of trust in you. Build longer term locks once trust is gained with a lockee.
• Remember if a lockee is ticking the "trust" option when loading a lock it puts the lockee at your mercy.
• When a lockee comes to you complaining about issues with a cage, pain, chafing or whatever and asks to be unlocked: Unlock him. He is probably more disappointed about it then you are. I have unlocked lots of lockees for cage issues, pain and chafing.
• Remember to take it slow. I always tell new lockees that are just starting with chastity to take it slow. The fantasy of being forcefully put into chastity for an awful long time and possibly blackmailed may sound fun, but fantasy and reality are not the same.
• Build some trust and a reputation in the community. You can join our Kik or Discord group. Remember there are more lockees than keyholders.
• Always remember both the keyholder and lockee need to have fun.

Thank you @JimLocked for giving some extra information to add.

This should be a Sticky

Thank you for doing this @Miss Katie. Hopefully this should help new keyholders get a nice following of lockees for them to play with.

Consider this stickied!

I've edited your post to format the numbered list.

Some very nice and thoughtful tips. Thank you very much! 

Have crossed out point 2 because of the recent removal of the newcomers corner and wanted to add another one here:

If you want to be flagged as a keyholder here and/or on Discord then please do the following:

• On the forum there's an option to request the keyholder role on your forum profile/account or just send me a DM.
• On Discord you will need to ask myself or a moderator to assign the keyholder role.

I mention this here as I see a lot of shared locks on the forum which is great, and some great creative ones too, but it's not always easy to tell if your main role is a keyholder or you're just switching for fun etc.