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General Chat / The Best Vape Gift For Vape Lovers
« Last post by Kaijose on August 08, 2022, 11:54:58 AM »
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General Chat / Might've ruined more than I intended
« Last post by Sherlocked-out on August 06, 2022, 08:19:47 PM »
Hi all--could use some advice. My husband and I have a good sex life, but it's been a little bland lately. Idk if anyone else feels this, but my go-to fantasies haven't been doing it for me for months, so I porn-spiralled into some side interests (including femdom) to psych myself up/get inspired.

In that spiral, I accidentally figured out my husband's porn alter ego (note: as far as I know, he's not on these forums). I probably should've stopped looking, but I was super turned on, and didn't think it was a big deal.

When I mentioned it, he freaked out about the invasion of privacy, and now he feels like an outlet he previously had isn't an option, regardless of how I feel. Talking about it is not an option (his boundary).

Now I'm not sure how to handle wanting to do more with edging/teasing/chastity--I feel like it's too close to a sensitive topic now, but at the same time, it's important to me for a couple reasons.

1) I get bored when receiving oral, if it takes too long. There's not enough to keep me mentally engaged. I'm pretty sure I would stay mentally engaged if I could imagine that he was doing it with the hope that I'd let him cum (and with the relevant dirty talk, on my part).

2) I have a much higher sex drive than he does, and if I could refuse to let him cum, I could be satisfied more often. Instead, right now, if he's not in the mood, we don't do anything.

I always knew he had some issues with shame, I just didn't realize how deep it went until now, and as a person who has very little shame, I'm at a loss. I also feel selfish for wanting to push for what I want--but I'm pretty sure he wants it too. I've been confused for years why he has so many chastity devices and accessories when he claims it was "just to try it." We do occasionally do very light edging, but when I asked him (days after the fight) if I could choose whether he gets to come, he said absolutely not.

Is there anything I can do to help him see that I'm into this, it's not connected to anything I found? How can I get past his shame to get what I/we want?
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General Chat / Re: Chastity Services
« Last post by CS11 on August 02, 2022, 06:42:50 PM »
I Just thought i would write an update to this blog, now that another month has passed and i am living life as chastity slave 11.

Generally my experience has been very positive, the chastity has been difficult and seriously frustrating but that was the idea, for me chastity doesnt work unless it is used to impose the status of a slave on me and i have to work hard in order to gain any form of release. When i explained this to Mistress Star at the interview that she conducts with her applicants she made very positive noises about how she could provide this and i was reassured that i woulve certainly have an experience but i think it is fair to say the experience has exceeded my expectations.

Essentially i get points for completing tasks, some of them are fairly administrative in nature but others are either humiliating or simply arousing and they are designed to make the experience of being locked away harder. Added to all this the programme is strict, if you fail a task you get punished and not in a way which is pure fantasy, punishments you quickly learn are to be avoided and compliance is the best way to get your release......this realism in the approach seriously works for me but i understand that everyone is different and for some this would seem a very tough experience to endure.

Each week, on a Sunday evening we meet with Mistress Star (she currently has 2 other chastity slaves), she reviews our tasks and awards points based on our performance and general obedience to her through the week. She does have her own discord channel which is not specifically chastity orientated (more a general BDSM chat) but her contracted chastity slaves have separate rules they have to follow when they are present. It is an odd experience sitting on the channel sort of hoping she will engage with you but then again sort of hoping she will not as there would be the risk of making a mistake which could lose you points, but its a sweet form of risk made serious by the fact it could make or break your release date.

I have had two releases now since i first signed up and i guess as a lot of users of chastity will attest it was worth the wait.............not going to go into detail but the release was needed and when it did happen it was worth the wait! Post release you are locked up again and off you go trying desperately to earn points for the next time.

As with the first post i am really interested in other peoples experiences with similar programmes so please do leave comments. If anyone wants to read specifics of the programme i am on you can find it at www.boundbdsm.net where you can also join the discord channel i have mentioned.
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yes you are right said ChastiKey QR codes will only work if scanned within the ChastiKey app
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General Chat / Dare
« Last post by Chrisc645 on July 17, 2022, 05:52:15 PM »
A few weeks ago a few friends and I were sitting around drinking and one of them pulled out a chastity cage and dared me to put it on, and I am still stuck and.my.balls are aching for relief.
2 days ago my younger brother told me if I need help he has me covered, only thing is we don't get along so well.
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General Chat / Chastity Services
« Last post by CS11 on July 08, 2022, 03:31:50 PM »
I know plenty of people have really poor experiences with chastity services they pay for and i have also read accounts of services which sounded really good, before entering into an arrangement i was pretty wary of the offerings on the internet.

I was wondering if anyone recommends any places where chastity services actually do deliver what they claim they will offer once you are signed up.

I entered my first contracted chastity period several months ago and spent a month as a chastity slave (Cwww.boundbdsm.net if anyone is interested), i had tasks to do, weekly calls with the keyholder and although it was tough it actually worked out really well, has anyone else any similar experiences?

For me personally being in chastity is about the control and the power the keyholder gets from this so the task based nature of the service really appealed to me but i know a lot of people will not have the same personal reasoning. A mixture of humiliation, tease and denial and some fairly basic admin tasks thrown in as well made it a pretty interactive experience.
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ChastiKey Chat / Re: Server Problems?
« Last post by Zimon on July 02, 2022, 10:46:33 PM »
Chastikey servers (except forum) is offline and the app is dead. KevinCross uplaoded the sourcecode to github so other people could look into it and build their own app so people can use. There is several new one, but the one I like the most is www.chaster.app, webpage based, easy to use for both self lock and keyholder locked. But there is other as well, look at a sticky thread in the forum for other apps/system that will continue where Chastikey left off. We had ton of joy from KevinCross and now he gave the future of Chastity apps to new poeple.
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General Chat / Re: Chastity Devices
« Last post by ton312 on July 01, 2022, 03:01:03 AM »
Hello! I'm relatively new to chastity, and new to this site. Found it via Faproulette actually XD
So I have a problem; I've purchased two seperate Chastity cages, one metal, other plastic, and they both don't fit one way or another. O was wondering if anyone else had this problem, and/or if anyone could recommend any solutions? It'd be greatly appreciated!

Ruedemutt, hope you are doing well now and found a decision of your problem. I saw a lot of suggestions here and a lot of them are really worthy. You can also try this chastity as I use mostly. I cannot complain because this is the choice of my woman and everythinh she does is the best thinh ever.
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General Chat / Re: Training technique
« Last post by ton312 on June 27, 2022, 03:17:58 AM »
I've never tried this but iy sounds interesting, thank you for the idea
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General Chat / Re: My husband is locked
« Last post by ton312 on June 27, 2022, 03:16:33 AM »
the best way is to gradually increase the time intervals because you both need to get used to it. But the control is your responsibility
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