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A daily chance to escape from my chains - yes the picture is of me - dare you?

Stay safe and don't drink

Request / Share / Exchange ChastiKey Locks / Re: Dare You?
« on: December 16, 2021, 01:20:37 AM »
One month in now <3 Sort of just going through card after card with a very slight chance of getting out. Kind of feel like Master Echtesleder is ignoring me on purpose to get my frustrations up.
Those of you who are unfortunate enough to be still locked up on Christmas Day will be getting a special present from me

Request / Share / Exchange ChastiKey Locks / Re: Dare You?
« on: November 30, 2021, 12:16:05 PM »
Thank you for giving me hope of getting out sooner Master Echtesleder, but for now I will have to wait a few days frozen and waiting
Be careful what you wish for in case I become very sadistic with your lock :-)

Please play with my lock as much as you wish Master Echtesleder, my body shivers with excitement with every update you make.
You have already handed control therefore I no longer need your permission :-)

Request / Share / Exchange ChastiKey Locks / Re: Dare You?
« on: November 29, 2021, 09:38:09 PM »
Thank you for giving me hope of getting out sooner Master Echtesleder, but for now I will have to wait a few days frozen and waiting
Be careful what you wish for in case I become very sadistic with your lock :-)

Request / Share / Exchange ChastiKey Locks / Obey or Stay
« on: November 19, 2021, 10:34:53 AM »

Within my other locks I already have serious contenders under my control where a few of them are into their second month and unlikely to find release for months to come. I find the ones who communicate the most trustworthy. Most others come quietly and await their chance to escape. A few seem to just load to up their status points while most likely they wear nothing.

Obey or Stay

7 to 30 Day Lock with possible extentions for not carrying out tasks

important - personal security:

I do not need your personal information, address or number or any identifying features such as face. I also have no Gender preference or require explicit images


1. DM before loading and await the OK - Once loaded the Lock is Frozen and I will Unfreeze you.
2. You will give me the name of a local Town or City where you either live, work or a place you visit often
3. THE TASK - I shall Google the area and I shall want to see selfies with a particular background. (If you feel unsure for any reason just take someone with you, they don't need to know anything) I will ask you to hold something or maybe wear something so as to know this is you.
4. Check ins will be required once a day with a 12 hour allowance as many people have different work patterns.


if a Task is not carried out I shall play with your Lock. Have fun

Request / Share / Exchange ChastiKey Locks / Dare You?
« on: November 07, 2021, 10:43:15 AM »
There are few guarantees in this life. The same applies to those who wish to load this lock. You have 1 chance every day for release. If you hit one of the 8 Doubles then your chance of escape is halfed then again every time you get a Double but at least it will be 1 Double less in your pack each time. If you hit one of the 2 freeze cards then you will have to wait up to 4 days before you can pick another card. Of course if you hit the Green you are Freed! Dare you play?

Lol, ogling other Women is definitely a male thing but it is not always the Woman some are looking at. (Most men maybe yes) But maybe he has desires for their dress code or maybe he has a kinky lust to dress himself. To me it sounds very much like you have the key literally!!! I would extend his Chastity confinement to all times other than for hygiene, pain relief and common sense i.e Airport, taking kids Swimming etc. The most difficult time for him to put the cage back on may be after making love but there is some real sense in making sure he does!!! Why? First of all it is a reality check which really does tell him who is boss. It can be a difficult moment for him but also incredibly enhancing. Finally all you have to remember Is that this is what he wants and if he didn't want relocking then you would have the right to question whether he just wants the game or true bonds to his Wife.
I have the impression you are good with his interest in chastity and I often think many Women would love this kind of opportunity. The only word of warning is NEVER show weakness because that would tell him you are not really in charge. For the fantasist that's no problem but for someone proclaiming they seek only reality then make sure you are always in charge.

Hello EchtesLeder,

Thank you for your thoughts and you have had good insight and certainly have mirrored some of my thoughts.

In the early stages of our ventures, which are not that long ago so I'm not sure that "early" is very accurate, I was certainly worried that my hubby was starting to think of getting his gratification from somewhere else.  However, it is very clear that his heart is certainly a slave to me.  I know, possibly a vomit comment;-)  But for him, it goes much deeper than puppy dog eyes and youthful, which he is not, love.  His need for my approval runs very deeply.  In fact, at the beginning when I discovered that he was cheating in his cage, he was stricken with guilt afterwards and genuinely needed my forgiveness before he was able to feel relaxed

That said, after we have had one of our 'sessions', his passion goes through the ceiling and his confidence shoots up too.  His eye certainly wonders from my face; I have caught him ogling other woman on several occasions! And so, your advice of getting him caged soon after sex, just to remind him of what he has and what I am offering, is very sound.  Having just returned from a break away, I am pleased to say that he is under lock and key once again.  When I ordered him back into his cage he was surprised but very quickly pleased that the fun clearly had not ended.  24 hours on and I asked him if he was still happy with being under my control and the answer was a resounding 'yes'.  He is also very relaxed which is always a good sign with him.

We both love the tension build up and even as I type, my impishness is starting to wake up and I am thinking of what my Subby needs next;-)

Thank you again and take care,

Mistress Dominique x

The binds of bondage and control between partners can be incredibly overpowering. There are some who embrace this to such a degree that they find a love that romantics can only ever dream of.
On the flip side the odd few will want more and more and if the partner can't provide the need then a few may extend into a darker world outside.
Don't read too much into my words though. It sounds like your hubby craves for your control. But as a measure of getting it right take the precaution and make sure he is locked when leaving your side. Maybe let him rest without the cage in bed occasionally because long term can cause sleep deprivation due to the night time "wood effect"
One word of advice to add though! ALWAYS put the cage back on after Sex! This way you and your partner can take the game out of the reality

Dear Sluts, Slaves, Trainees and Keyholders,
I was not sure whether to add this into my “New to being a keyholder” post or start a new chat.  Clearly, I decided on the latter and have done this to keep the conversations separate and, hopefully, easier to follow.  If you are new to my posts then it might help to read the aforementioned ‘chat’ as it will put this conversation into better context.

I need your advice about why my husband wants, in fact needs, to be caged and punished.

In the initial stages of my hubby exploring chastity, he locked himself up, for quite some time without telling me.  It was only during lock down 1 that he had the courage to tell me, which I applaud him for as he clearly was struggling with his sexual needs at the time.  During the early stages I was just aware of when he was locked but as time went on he asked me to be his keyholder.  I found this very strange and still cannot understand why he needs me to be the KH.  I welcome your views on that one 
Being his KH progressed into role play and, more recently, the role play has become a way of life.  Even when he is out of his cage, I find that I am more commanding and stricter on him than earlier on in our marriage.  He also responds to this and is so much more attentive and interesting to be around; he actually shares his thoughts more.
What I don’t understand is why he accepts the punishments.  I know that he can relieve himself, even when caged, but he seems to not want to.  I have asked him for his view on the matter and I am not convinced that he fully understands the need to be dominated or why he accepts the punishments so willingly.  Let’s be candid, I have been getting quite cruel recently and sense that he still wants more!
Hubby has said that:
1. His work life is so intense and he has so many responsibilities, being a slave is relaxing for him
2. When caged his hormone levels build up and the cage is a constant reminder that he shouldn’t relieve himself without my permission.  For him, this is constant joy!
3. That, as he has got older, he sometime suffers from ED and being a servant to me, without the use of his manhood, means he can still enjoy the passion of pleasing me without the guilt of being a disappointment in bed (something that I have never berated him for)
I am struggling to understand whether I am being unkind to him with the punishments and could in fact be reinforcing his lack of libido?
What are your views, self-reflection and great wisdom that you can share with me?

Yours truly and bemused,
Mistress Dominique xx

Request / Share / Exchange ChastiKey Locks / FreeDomme or Freeze
« on: October 19, 2021, 10:15:39 AM »

Every 3 hours you have a chance to Escape or become Frozen
If you are Frozen you may only have a few chances to Escape before the Lock re-sets in 24 hours
Max 10 resets
Dare you chance your Escape at the expense of being Frozen in your Cage?
The Cage you see in the image used to hold real Captives. All you have to do is lock yourself into your Chastity Cage and Load the Lock

Request / Share / Exchange ChastiKey Locks / Dare you chance the Obliette
« on: October 14, 2021, 11:23:57 PM »

Max 5 players
Players start frozen
Players start with 99 Reds
3 hours non cumulative
When new player joins all players reset to 99 Reds
Release only achievable upon finding a green
When a player escapes all other users gain his/her Reds each (not  split)
DM Preffered but not essential
Be warned it may be a long ride

Request / Share / Exchange ChastiKey Locks / Re: FreeDom Handover
« on: October 11, 2021, 11:00:57 PM »
This is an Update should you wish to tempt your fate! One user has had the nerve to ask me five times to choose whether he/she should be released or the lock reset after claiming the green card. This particular user has already been locked for 28+ days. My decision has been to allow 1 more chance to play but I have increased the odds to that the lockee will most likely remain locked for at least a few months and quite possibly well over a year! For the record I will not repeat this method but I shall be building a new lock within the next few days for anyone who thinks they can play with high risk.

I ran 20 simulations with the following results
Best = 3 hours
Average = 42 hours
Worst = 8 days
1.   If you choose to trust I may play with the lock
2.   Use any “Red Emoji” I will check my messages when I can

Be aware that you know what you are doing before locking up! Play safe, think ahead, don't drink before making these decisions as you may regret later. Stay safe and enjoy the ride.

Request / Share / Exchange ChastiKey Locks / Re: Keyholder gesucht
« on: September 23, 2021, 03:36:37 PM »
Suche einen knallharten Dom der mich dauerhaft & durchgehend keusch hält und dies auch online zur Schau stellt…!
Melde Dich!

Request / Share / Exchange ChastiKey Locks / FreeDom Handover
« on: September 21, 2021, 09:50:41 AM »

I ran 20 simulations with the following results
Best = 3 hours
Average = 42 hours
Worst = 8 days
1.   If you choose to trust I may play with the lock
2.   Use any “Red Emoji” I will check my messages when I can

Be aware that you know what you are doing before locking up! Play safe, think ahead, don't drink before making these decisions as you may regret later. Stay safe and enjoy the ride.

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Request / Share / Exchange ChastiKey Locks / Escape before it freezes
« on: September 12, 2021, 01:20:52 AM »
Ive played Lockee from time to time but Im now wanting my own little toys to torment. I live and sleep in the United Kingdom. This lock has only 5 stickies and one green, cumulative every 3 hours. You have a one in six chance to escape every 3 hours but with a warning! When I sleep you will be frozen until I wake up. Remember the US East Coast is five hours behind the UK, you have been warned. This lock will last a few hours but it may take a few days if you are really unlucky. Max duration will be 5-7 days but I will decide that later according to how Sadistic I feel. Dare you?

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Request / Share / Exchange ChastiKey Locks / Re: Fixed 1 to 3 days or
« on: April 28, 2021, 11:11:08 PM »
Is there any forgiveness during sleeping time? Yes there will be

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