Quote from: Cdav05 on November 06, 2019, 06:49:33 PM

My husband is locked right now and i lock the keys in a time lock safe box where i can choose hours, days, minutes to set and i can only bring myself to set it to 2 days max what are things i can do to have courage to set it longer mainly for torture and pleasure please help

Try adding a game of chance on unlock day and let fate decide.  Dice roll or drawing a color marble from a bag of plain ones.  There are online generators with odds I think for games like that.

I disagree, respectfully.

Your husband ceded control to you. He wants you to make the decision about his possible release. He wants you in control of him.

Leaving his release to chance disenfranchises you as decision maker, key holder, and domme. That's probably not what turns him on. Since he has given you control, you have to learn to appreciate it and use that control. I'd recommend setting the time lock for a few hours longer than usual working your way up to added days. Once you've been able to work up the courage to lock him for a full week or more tease him by adding another day or two.

Finally, you might want to get away from the safe altogether. Wear the key on a necklace, bracelet, or best of all anklet and tease him with it. Twirl it around your finger while talking to him about ordinary things as a subtle reminder that you are in control. This is what he wants.

Be in control.