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General Chat / Re: reduce pain during lockup
« on: July 11, 2021, 04:56:52 PM »
Based on trying many originals and knockoffs over the last years, this is my summary of experiences regarding pain. I cover only ball trapping cages here.

1. Poor finishing: This is a major issue with several of the knockoffs. If you can feel a ridge on any part that is going to be in contact with your body, it WILL create irritation. How bad it is depends on the body part, the pressure and the length of the wear.

2. Sensitive skin: Let us face it, some of the skin in contact with your chastity lock is pretty darn sensitive. If you lubricate the contact areas, the lube itself may have some mild irritant (like perfume) in it and may actually increase the irritation. Soap residue is REALLY bad. Even mild soaps can be enough to cause an irritation. Make sure you rinse very properly after washing. The only lubricant that I have not had any reaction to is good ol' water-free Vaseline.

3. Erections: The first rules of avoiding painful erections are mentioned in 1 and 2 above. However: When your penis pushes the tube out, you will stretch your ball sack, and the bottom of it will be stretched more than the rest. This creates an unpleasant but not damaging sore point (unless you are in a cheap knockoff with sharp ridges). The pain usually goes away when the erection goes down. Cold showers work well for this.

4. Unusual stuff hanging from your most sensitive parts: All the pains will eventually - unless you break the skin - subside. You toughen up. It hurts less. But this takes time and does involve some pain in the process. By time I mean at least a week or two - sometimes a month or two. While you get used to things, you must bear the pain. It is easier if someone holds your keys - takes away your choice in the matter. Just remember: If erections hurt - you ARE in a chastity device. You can consider the pain as punishment for thinking "impure thoughts" - if that helps.

5. Wrongly sized and/or shaped ring: People go for smaller rings to prevent pull-out. That is not always the smartest thing to do. A too tight ring WILL cause pain, and may even (worse) reduce or cut off blood supply to your balls. You don't want that to happen unless you are looking to castrate yourself. The ring should fit around your balls and confirm to your anatomical shape. That means curves and not straight sides. It means no bottom hinges that pinch or dig into your scrotum. But even more importantly: What matters most for most men is really the distance between the lowest point of the penis tube and the top inner point of the ring. I have slept with Cobra style (knockoffs) chastity devices and have had my cage fall off while I was asleep. This happens when this critical distance is too large and/or the cage has flexibility allowing it to be bent out. The Holy Trainer (especially the V4) has a very low clearance here while still allowing enough space to maintain circulation. It is the device I ended up with. It works for me.

6. Penis tube size/length: The more erect you get in the cage, the more it places strain on the bottom of your ball sack. Some handle this by having extremely short cages. For me that sort of worked, I no longer got pains in the bottom of my ball sack, but I got pains in my penis instead. And no amounts of Vaseline helped against that pain. So yeah - you need to find what works for you. Some of us needs to be allowed some expansion to avoid pain. Several of the devices offers different sizes of penis tubes. Experiment to find what suits you. If you go for knockoffs, you should really use a fine sand paper (wet paper) to make sure you sand out any sharp edges.

In summary: One size does not fit all. Penises are very different apart from the obvious matter of size. Some expand mostly in length, some mostly in thickness, some in both. Some point up, down, out or to a side. Some have a large head, some have a small one. Some are circumcised, some are not. Some are straight, some are bent. Some are very sensitive, some are less so. You need to find what suits you.

Most men can achieve excellent security with the right ball trapping cage. The ball trappers also offers some great benefits, like they can be non-metallic, they are lightweight, they can be hidden under clothing and they really don't restrict movement (that much). However, If you want the absolutely most secure solution - go for a frenum or PA piercing with a matching tube or for a full chastity belt. If you chose the later - that is a totally different story, one I may get back to. And yes, I have a Carrara Concept belt - extremely secure - and you can even sun bathe in it without really showing up any "naughty parts".

I hope this can be of help to newcomers in this wonderful chastity fetish world.


Good morning Miss Missy, I hope the day finds you well!

I loaded your "Reset Madness Part 2" some 115 hours ago. It is a delightfully frustrating lock with the daily resets that takes away all the green cards accumulated over the day. The freeze cards also add to the fun. I will not divulge any numbers here, but needless to say, you will be hoping for enough green cards while you see your time dwindle away to a daily reset. Then of course, all your efforts stop when a freeze card appears. The lock says 80-280 hours, and I am both scared and excited to see how close I will get to the 280 hours. By now I am not even halfway to the maximum for the lock. I  will soon set a new personal record, unless my luck in cards changes drastically.Thank you so much for making these locks Missy. Too bad I am not Dutch.  ;D

Ut - oh. So close - then I hit the dreaded Freeze card - lock now frozen for 24 hours.  :-X

This is exciting - but soo frustrating. Seeing the freeze card was a real rush.

PHEW - I just noticed I mis-read. It was 2-4 hours.  :o  What a relief.

Thank you Missy for your wonderful, challenging and frustrating locks! My first real lock was yours - now I am in my second one. I have no idea when I will get out - the "Reset Madness part 2" is a bit vague on those details. I keep drawing new red cards though, so while I have found 6 green cards, it does not look promising - or maybe that is just what it does.

I am into chastity because my orgasms get stronger the longer I lock up. So does frustration too. The thrill is in not knowing - not having control. Wanting what you can't get.

I could have picked a longer lock, but there is a mail order shipment on its way to me with a Cobra in it and I'd love to test that out. Right now I am in a Holy Trainer V3. My two keys are both in a lock-box attached with strong bolts to a wall. As I have deliberately forgotten the code, the only way out is to use an angle grinder on the lock box. The lock box is of the secure type where you can't feel it when the tumblers align on the correct code. I have also modified the HT V3 a bit by drilling a hole allowing for the insertion of a plastic seal that makes unlocking impossible without breaking the seal, but as I am not officially a lockee of Missy (I just use the locks she offers), I have not sent a picture showing the seal.

Please all, the keyholders here go a great job - make sure they know they are appreciated.

General Chat / Re: How to forget the combination
« on: June 23, 2021, 09:50:16 PM »
It is easy to forget a number if you know how the brain works.

Your short term memory is just that: SHORT TERM. It throws away all the crap that you need not remember for the future before it move the remaining stuff to longer term storage. The idea of what I describe here is to prevent the code from being transferred to long term memory.

It filters by INTEREST. If you pass a car and see its number plate, it will not be remembered. But if the number on the plate was CHASTE 1 - I bet the lot of you would remember.

First point of forgetting: Make no fuzz. Handle the number as little as possible. Do not attempt to memorize, that starts the process of transferring the number to longer term storage.

Next, you get some numbers from the app that you need to transfer to the safe's code. Handle the number as little as you can. Write down the numbers backward. Again: Do not memorize them. Repeat random numbers in your head while you move to the safe. Reverse the numbers again while you input them to your safe. Right after inputting them, start thinking of random numbers. Watch the app screen with the flashing numbers intently - and speak out all the numbers you see as they appear. CONSENTRATE! And destroy the note completely.

Second point of forgetting: Leave nothing to be remembered.

By the end of the minute it is highly unlikely that you will remember the number. You are safely locked in and ready for a ride on the chastity train.

My 5 cent worth of advice. Works for me! :-X

Request / Share / Exchange ChastiKey Locks / Re: Dante's Inferno
« on: June 21, 2021, 06:30:08 PM »
I am not in one of these locks at the moment, but I will be when the current one releases. It is a fixed timer 3-6 day lock and I have no clue when I will get released. It will anyhow be a new record for me.

Request / Share / Exchange ChastiKey Locks / Re: Dante's Inferno
« on: June 21, 2021, 11:07:34 AM »
I am sorry about that. It was my first day on the site. I experimented a bit and only after setting locks realized there was a test button.

 I cleared both locks and am now locked with a single lock. I will stay with single locks from now on as it is also the only thing that makes a meaning.


Request / Share / Exchange ChastiKey Locks / Re: Russian roulette
« on: June 20, 2021, 10:27:49 PM »
I am in #6, but the hidden code does not match any system that holds my keys at the moment, so I will just delete the lock tomorrow and start again. I am wearing the Holy Trainer and have a very sturdy lockbox that I can set the code for. After restarting I will make sure that my keys are properly in the lockbox that is protected by the app.

Request / Share / Exchange ChastiKey Locks / Re: Dante's Inferno
« on: June 20, 2021, 10:19:30 PM »
I see the creator do no longer manage this lock. I had no idea what that meant but eventually clicked the green padlock. I guess I have quite some to learn about this system.

Request / Share / Exchange ChastiKey Locks / Re: Dante's Inferno
« on: June 20, 2021, 07:04:17 PM »
Okay, Now I have 1 green card left to find - and 40 sticky cards in the stack. Chances of finding the last green card are now like 2%. I did find 2 green cards in a row though a few draws back... "Hope is the greatest of illusions"

Heyyy - this lock is EVIL! - and I love it

Request / Share / Exchange ChastiKey Locks / Re: Dante's Inferno
« on: June 20, 2021, 03:25:25 PM »
Lucky you - I guess :) Hope you enjoy your unlocked time until the morning.


Request / Share / Exchange ChastiKey Locks / Re: Birthday Relay
« on: June 20, 2021, 01:59:48 PM »
Too bad I missed the "Birthday Relay" - I am already locked by you in "Dante's Inferno - Gluttony".


Request / Share / Exchange ChastiKey Locks / Re: Dante's Inferno
« on: June 20, 2021, 01:30:09 PM »
Well, I applied the Gluttony lock, my "jewels" are now inside a Holly Trainer (and while I have tried, there is no way of getting out of that for my anatomy), the keys are in the combo safe - and honestly: I can't remember the code I got from this app. Now there is the "long wait" - while frustration grows. It is my first time locked by this app, and I really have no clue what to expect.

C'est la vie  :o

ChastiKey Chat / Re: Integration with Cellmate
« on: June 20, 2021, 10:47:12 AM »
I somewhat doubt that story. If you paid a hacker to unlock the cell-mate, you are not very enlightened.

There are several ways to get out: The device has a metal ring, but the rest is made from some plastic. Just bend the tube part up until the connection with the metal ring breaks, and you are free (after sliding your "package" out of the ring). It sure breaks the device, but that is no big issue. Paying for a new Cellmate sure beats paying blackmail money - and sure is cheaper too.

I will leave it to the techies to figure out the ways to force an unlock of the device, in order not to ruin anyone's fun.

Last option is to contact QIUI - yes they are in China - but they all lock data is stored in their database, so they can clear the lock status. I believe they reset all the locks when this problem happened.


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