Seeking recommendations as a new chastity lockee

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Seeking recommendations as a new chastity lockee
« on: March 22, 2021, 09:21:34 PM »
Hi everyone, I just recently discovered this app, tried a few test locks and got quite excited. I'm however still quite new to long term chastity, I've only tried for 3 days straight (and 10 days with unlock in between) so I have much to learn, even if part of me wants to jump out into deep water immediately :P.

So I wanted to ask about recommendations of how to go about this, where to start and what to avoid as I start out? I am into having a female keyholder and find it extremely exciting that she could suddenly decide to make it much more difficult to get out or freeze the lock, but the realist in me knows that I lack long term chastity experience and it could go completely wrong. I want to find and expand my limits, maybe adding tasks and other things. I've seen some interesting variable locks like for around 5 days that I've been very tempted on and I believe I should "easily" be able to do, especially since I would enjoy being locked up by a woman :), but I want to check for any recommendations first.
Another question is how old a lock does it make sense to join? Ex. if it's a month old or two..

The best option would of course be to find a keyholder who would be willing to find and push my limits, maybe with some tasks but I'm not sure how easy it would be to find her.. so probably better to start with shared locks on the forum and meet keyholders that way..