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Title: Ideal duration
Post by: Mistress_Latex on June 04, 2019, 01:17:07 PM
A question for the locked guys here....at what point are you at your most frustrated? Does it reach a peak then no matter how long you're denied after, you're still as frustrated without it increasing?

I once slowly edged a guy who'd been denied just over 3 weeks, the tugging on his handcuffs and moaning into his ballgag suggests he was as frustrated as could be.
Title: Re: Ideal duration
Post by: dexter1005 on June 04, 2019, 01:39:44 PM
After around 1 week of denial I find thatís the peak , especially after multiple orgasms a day before being denied. However, it can still increase I feel
Title: Re: Ideal duration
Post by: guest2797 on June 04, 2019, 02:07:38 PM
For me it's usually around the three day mark
Title: Re: Ideal duration
Post by: TroyJoy on June 04, 2019, 03:59:49 PM
I've only gone for about 13 days but I felt that frustration is very high when being locked ... Everything gets easier after 3 days, and again after 7 days but in general frustration is highest when being teased, no matter how long one is locked....
Title: Re: Ideal duration
Post by: guest3212 on June 04, 2019, 07:53:29 PM
I have found that around the 5-7 day mark I am pretty frustrated... but honestly, with a bit of teasing and attention I've found my desire build and build and build..... with no end to how badly I want relief...
Title: Re: Ideal duration
Post by: Hotnhorny4u on June 04, 2019, 10:21:21 PM
I start to get frustrated now at around the first week. 9 or so days in, i start to get pliable and feel myself slip deeper into submission
Title: Re: Ideal duration
Post by: chose on June 05, 2019, 01:08:12 AM
I am getting very frustrated after about 15 days.

When a woman begins to tease me at that moment, I feel my bird swell in his cage at the slightest teasing.

I do not know if the frustration can still grow after because I've never passed the 18d ...
I have to try, soon, I would look for a KH that a lock very very mean, anyway the hardest is not physical, it's in the head.
I think at most the duration is long the more the pleasure of being frustrated is big.

Sorry for my bad English, English is not the language of my country ... I hope you understand.
Title: Re: Ideal duration
Post by: Halflifecrysis on June 05, 2019, 10:08:14 AM
For me, after the first week it will start. Usually double after 2 weeks...then its just a matter of how much mental game you want to delve into. I have never had the experience of someone teasing me...im sure that can be intense.

Being a solo player I find hypno audio files and similar things to increase my desire for release. There are times when the sensations are incredible. After a few weeks of this I can understand how someone could become obsessive when the arousal keeps you sleep deprived. I'll release myself when all I can think about is relief.bits a beautiful pleasure that is equally unbearable. Giving someone that much control is an amazing fantasy bringing out the ultimate submissive in anyone that plays with chastity.
Title: Re: Ideal duration
Post by: guest2213 on June 13, 2019, 09:37:33 PM
The longest I have been in chastity was 11days in a row. It was without a keyholder. The first week was actually harder then the last 3 days.

I believe having a good keyholder teasing you should make it more difficult and interesting.
Title: Re: Ideal duration
Post by: Lost106 on June 26, 2019, 12:40:12 PM
I've been locked the longest at 85 days. During that time I had several releases. Princess usually keeps me pent up max a month.
My frustration max is at a week. Depending on the amount of teasing she gives. It levels off at that point . I constantly think of sex of some type.
Then when things are going good I want inside her very badly .  If I've given her lots of oral ,or shes been teasing alot I feel it in my prostate.  Eventually I'll get rid of the fluid one way or another.  Generally no orgasm involved,and I remain horny. The frustration eased,but builds back by the next day.
I'm sure everyone is different.  It depends how long, and how often your teased and denied.
Title: Re: Ideal duration
Post by: SlaveTristan on July 26, 2019, 03:01:37 AM
It really depends on tease portion, being locked away for a couple days is really hot and exciting all on its own. If the key holder is actively involved and playing on the turn-ons, fear, and anxiety it can be exciting and frustrating and addicting over the long term. There can even be days where Iím told ďyour dick isnít important or the focus right now, thatís why itís locked up and we arenít talking about it till I bring it up.Ē And that keeps it going. Apart from that, if the discomfort reaches a peak that doesnít go away, that would be the only thing ending it for a time.
Title: Re: Ideal duration
Post by: Tvmaidchelle on August 12, 2019, 07:08:25 PM
Think 3 months in  you are willing to do almost anything to be free . Esp if the device denies any arousal at all
Title: Re: Ideal duration
Post by: Largecic on August 26, 2019, 06:01:26 PM

Being a solo player I find hypno audio files and similar things to increase my desire for release.
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Any favourites?
Title: Re: Ideal duration
Post by: Chaste latex slave on August 28, 2019, 07:12:05 PM
It is an interesting question.  If i am being actively teased and interacted with, frustration can begin immediately and build almost without limit.  If i just lock it up on my own, with no real interaction, it can take days before it gets to be much at all.

So, depending on how i am handled, i could likely be broken within a month.
Title: Re: Ideal duration
Post by: solotort on September 06, 2019, 06:33:16 PM
For me i think it really gets frustrating when the starting duration is passed for a long time after i was expecting to get out.

So for a lockee that was playing for just a 3 hour session 6 or more hours might really push their buttons.

For me, I was locked up by the bot Zoe, who always let me out early (so that was my expectation). i set up a 6 day session and by day 13 i was going crazy. I was moody, i was so horny, i was depressed thinking i would never get out. It was a pretty wild ride. Zoe let me out on day 16, i was shocked and at work...

That would be my suggestion, like any punishment, it is NOT punishment until the punished no longer wants to be punished, then the real punishment begins... (within sane and consensual limits of course. Play hard, play safe!)

solo
Title: Re: Ideal duration
Post by: chose on September 06, 2019, 07:05:03 PM
For me i think it really gets frustrating when the starting duration is passed for a long time after i was expecting to get out.

So for a lockee that was playing for just a 3 hour session 6 or more hours might really push their buttons.

For me, I was locked up by the bot Zoe, who always let me out early (so that was my expectation). i set up a 6 day session and by day 13 i was going crazy. I was moody, i was so horny, i was depressed thinking i would never get out. It was a pretty wild ride. Zoe let me out on day 16, i was shocked and at work...

That would be my suggestion, like any punishment, it is NOT punishment until the punished no longer wants to be punished, then the real punishment begins... (within sane and consensual limits of course. Play hard, play safe!)

solo

It seems that Zoe sets the Locked time to the number of Red Cards ... And probably a little more than the number of Red Cards...
Title: Re: Ideal duration
Post by: Amarant on October 02, 2019, 02:57:18 PM
It really depends. Personally I've been locked up for 10 days. Annonying, quite. but worth it.
You just need to listen to what your body is saying. It takes time. Personally, I played football in high school, so I'm used to havig things around that area (i.e. Athletic Cup) but everyone is different.

Take it day by day
Title: Re: Ideal duration
Post by: Amarant on October 02, 2019, 03:25:10 PM
longest I've been locked-up was  10 days (before I found this app)
It really depends on your body, belt and self thought. I was in the hospital for 2 months and couldn't 'rub one out'