Hello all, I'm new here!

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Hello all, I'm new here!
« on: March 06, 2020, 07:15:17 AM »
Hey all! Just thought I'd say hi and introduce myself. I'm a 27 year old virgin male from Australia.

I recently found this app and forum and thought I'd give it a shot. I've only done a couple of the bot keyholders but I'm loving it so far.

I've got a fairly high sex drive and masturbate a couple of times a day so I've been playing around with some light chastity, normally just a couple of hours at night when I'm horny and like to tease myself.
I normally watch some porn and then end up unlocking myself after a little bit of teasing and having a wank due to lack of self control. I have done overnight once or twice but the morning wood really hurts so I normally immediately unlock myself to relieve the pain (any advice?).

Hence I'm liking this app, it takes a little bit of control out of my hands in terms of when I can unlock myself (although I do have a backup key to my safe where I put my keys for emergency). Ideally I would like a female keyholder to take it a bit further but the bots are doing good so far.

Thanks for reading, ShyguyAU. :)

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Re: Hello all, I'm new here!
« Reply #1 on: March 25, 2020, 04:01:37 AM »
Hello ShyguyAU!

This may be a stretch, but have you ever considered creating a fixed lock for x to y time?
I was afraid at first (I DIDN'T use a bot, and had a backup, just in case)

If your still getting use to it, try for maybe an hour or 2 and think about hiding the timer. That way you know you are in control. Or, at least, do a test lock and do an average time. That way you have a basis.

It helped me out at first.


Try it! The only thing that could go wrong is A. Being really horny for a few hours then release. B. Using the 2nd key just incase.

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Graphic Designer by day, bink switch by night


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Re: Hello all, I'm new here!
« Reply #2 on: March 25, 2020, 12:55:58 PM »
Hello ShyGuyAU,

You lock up for the thrill of passing but you need to reconsider why you are doing it. Start slow, what's your maximum 3 hours? Try doing 5 next time. Take it slow. Forget the key. Don't expose yourself to porn for these hours. Go out for a long walk or run. Train your mind. Do 6 hours then take it up a notch. The orgasm will be better after you don't touch yourself for sometime. If you are frustrated then it's working. I do lockups without chastity. It's mental. I can go for as long as I choose or the bot chooses without touching my cock all day and I have a very high sex drive. Good luck!
It isn't chastity until you beg to be released
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Key holder and sometimes lockee for educational purposes. :-)

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Re: Hello all, I'm new here!
« Reply #3 on: March 31, 2020, 10:28:07 AM »
Hello ShyGuyAU,

You lock up for the thrill of passing but you need to reconsider why you are doing it. Start slow, what's your maximum 3 hours? Try doing 5 next time. Take it slow. Forget the key. Don't expose yourself to porn for these hours. Go out for a long walk or run. Train your mind. Do 6 hours then take it up a notch. The orgasm will be better after you don't touch yourself for sometime. If you are frustrated then it's working. I do lockups without chastity. It's mental. I can go for as long as I choose or the bot chooses without touching my cock all day and I have a very high sex drive. Good luck!
Hello ShyguyAU!

This may be a stretch, but have you ever considered creating a fixed lock for x to y time?
I was afraid at first (I DIDN'T use a bot, and had a backup, just in case)

If your still getting use to it, try for maybe an hour or 2 and think about hiding the timer. That way you know you are in control. Or, at least, do a test lock and do an average time. That way you have a basis.

It helped me out at first.


Try it! The only thing that could go wrong is A. Being really horny for a few hours then release. B. Using the 2nd key just incase.

-A

I'm fairly comfortable in it as I've got/ tried a few different options and found one I like. I can sometimes go several days without even thinking about it when I'm really busy with work or busy with stuff around the house etc but it's the morning wood and late night hornyness that I find the most difficult. As for duration I could possibly go for a couple of days I reckon if I could find a solution to the pain of morning wood. But like I said I normally just use it when I'm just playing around at night am and horny. I don't really have any incentive to do it other than fun. I have found that after a couple of days of 'no fun time' that it obviously feels way better when I do have a 'release' so maybe I could use that as my incentive. Thanks for the advice, I just need to try and find a solution to morning wood.