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Title: Chastity in Public showers
Post by: 346588 on December 26, 2019, 12:11:30 AM
Hey guy,
Iím a quiet sporty guy, I locked myself  in am matter of affection for 31 days!!!
Iím usually shower together with other guys after practice, Whatís a good excuse for beeing in chastity?

I still want to shower with them!

I still want the guys to see what a fagg I am/ I want to take pride of my chastity
Title: Re: Chastity in Public showers
Post by: punasiipi on December 26, 2019, 03:16:05 PM
I would avoid showering publicly. For my point of view chastity cage is a sex toy in terms of discreetness and I can't find a way to explain it in a way to appear "innocent".
I feel showering with it publicly would be rude toward others.
Title: Re: Chastity in Public showers
Post by: drbane on December 26, 2019, 05:08:42 PM
I would avoid showering publicly. For my point of view chastity cage is a sex toy in terms of discreetness and I can't find a way to explain it in a way to appear "innocent".
I feel showering with it publicly would be rude toward others.

I agree. Others have not consented to exposure to your kinks.
Title: Re: Chastity in Public showers
Post by: Greyshade on January 09, 2020, 08:38:18 AM
If you stop showering with them, it will also be obvious. 
Saying you lost a bet is one of the more classic excuses to do something odd. 
Title: Re: Chastity in Public showers
Post by: XstacykittenX on January 09, 2020, 07:57:50 PM
I don't think you should shower with them in chastity. They didn't consent to be involved in your play. Safe sane consensual..... involving non consenting bystanders in kink just isn't right in my eyes.
Title: Re: Chastity in Public showers
Post by: ChastedBDSMGuy on April 09, 2020, 12:37:46 AM
I would avoid it. The other would have too many questions and maybe many people would not understand the chastity life
Title: Re: Chastity in Public showers
Post by: friscoboi on July 26, 2020, 05:04:59 PM
It's not any more sexual than the penis itself. And you're not making them look at it. It's just part of who you are.

When I wore my clear HTv3 in a shower with no door, I'd see guys come by 2-3 times catching a glance to see what it was about, but this wasn't in America...where Puritanism is strong. I'll be in a Mature Metal Jailbird soon, and I won't be changing my routine (not that I make it a habit to show it off). Even when I start swimming with the local LGBT swim team, I'm sure it'll come up.
Title: Re: Chastity in Public showers
Post by: SpankySD on September 13, 2020, 02:37:53 AM
It's not subjecting someone to your kink any more than shaving your crotch is, or having a piercing. The key is self acceptance and feeling confident in your sexuality. Some people will ask questions, and if you just answer them in a straightforward way, then life goes on. People don't care about what other people do in that respect, other than perhaps being curious. Once you satisfy the curiosity, then it's no longer an issue.
Title: Re: Chastity in Public showers
Post by: InspectorFlint on September 23, 2020, 05:38:58 AM
I live in Germany and wear my cock cages always at nudist beaches and public saunas. There has never been a problem.  Really very very seldom people ask about it.  Always friendly and interested then. I answer it is a body jewel like Piercings or tattoos in those body parts. And depending of the talk, I tell them about the lock and that my wife has the keys. It is not offending others. It is nothing other than pussy Piercings.  Nobody complains about those