For me communication is key. When we discuss things and talk then it helps know you, and for you to know me. If your key holder gives you a task, complete it to the best of your ability, if you can't for a reason, explain. This to them. When they have given you a task, inform them when you have started, and when the task is complete. This will then lead to rewards or punishments according to what they have asked. Punishments can be anywhere from adding cards, work outs, writing lines, doing something for x time. Rewards could be removal of cards, cumming when your sentence is over, etc. Hope things helps.
Holmes