A question for the keyholders

Being new here, I feel like I will eventually try most KH's out to find the best fit.  If you will have me, of course.

With that in mind, it is only a matter of time before I mess up and someone needs to punish me (or trade a punishment for time/red c arda off, or maybe, just maybe reward me)

So my question is this, what are the staples one such as myself should keep on hand to be able to implement any punishments or rewards?

For me communication is key.  When we discuss things and talk then it helps know you, and for you to know me.  If your key holder gives you a task, complete it to the best of your ability, if you can't for a reason, explain. This to them.  When they have given you a task, inform them when you have started, and when the task is complete.  This will then lead to rewards or punishments according to what they have asked.  Punishments can be anywhere from adding cards, work outs, writing lines, doing something for x time.  Rewards could be removal of cards, cumming when your sentence is over, etc.  Hope things helps.

Holmes

Thanks, it does.

Really depends on the Keyholder of your choice and your limits i guess. A paddle for spanks, a collar, ballgag, nippleclamps, pen and paper for lines are probably the basics. Icyhot/Deep Heat and a plug if you wish to.

This is closer to the answer I was expecting, but communication with the keyholder is probably the answer more people need to read.  I'll do better on communication.

And I guess a paddle, a collar, and a ball gag need to be on my Christmas list.  Oh, and IcyHot.

Really depends on the Keyholder of your choice and your limits i guess. A paddle for spanks, a collar, ballgag, nippleclamps, pen and paper for lines are probably the basics. Icyhot/Deep Heat and a plug if you wish to.

I love that idea, lube up a plug with icy hot!! Sounds so evil i think i may just try that!!!!

Quote from: JimLocked on September 17, 2018, 11:45:18 AM

Really depends on the Keyholder of your choice and your limits i guess. A paddle for spanks, a collar, ballgag, nippleclamps, pen and paper for lines are probably the basics. Icyhot/Deep Heat and a plug if you wish to.

I love that idea, lube up a plug with icy hot!! Sounds so evil i think i may just try that!!!!

That does sound pretty evil, half of me is thinking "OMG, don't tell my KH that", the other half knows it's likely too late anyhow, and I'd be grateful for her attention.