First time locked

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First time locked
« on: June 23, 2019, 03:04:26 PM »
i m going to be locked by a very very dominant Master and i m super excited and terrified at the same time. He is an online keyholder. i was wondering if anyone could help me bypass all the reading and help me out with a few things:

We aren't in the same country. Can He still use the app to take control of the chastity?
What are any warning signs that something might be wrong? And how long do those signs take to show? i m going to be locked by Him for at the bare minimum 2 weeks (assuming He doesn't just add a few more weeks for whatever reason)


Thanks

Re: First time locked
« Reply #1 on: June 23, 2019, 09:52:21 PM »
I can only really answer your first question. Your master can keep you locked remotely with the app. You don't need any special lock. Either a combination padlock or digital safe is fine. The app will show you a combination to set the lock with and you attach the combination lock to a box that would hold your keys or you store the keys in a digital safe. Once you're allowed to unlock the app will reveal the combination.

I do recommend having a quick read through the help files or test some locks so that you both understand how it works before you lock up properly
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Re: First time locked
« Reply #2 on: June 23, 2019, 10:28:09 PM »
Thanks for your input.

But as i said, we're in different countries. so i m mailing the keys to Him.

Re: First time locked
« Reply #3 on: June 23, 2019, 10:45:20 PM »
The app doesn't work like. It was designed to not require sending keys through the post but if you find you can use the app as well as sending the keys then enjoy
Developer of ChastiKey - The timed keyholder for your chastity device (Available on Google Play and App Store)

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Re: First time locked
« Reply #4 on: June 23, 2019, 11:54:22 PM »
Yeah I know how the app is originally designed, but He wanted to be physically in possession of the keys. I was just wondering if He could use it to have some fun too.

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Offline knox_

Re: First time locked
« Reply #5 on: June 24, 2019, 10:11:39 PM »
Red flags all over! Be careful. Domination is not about what he wants, it is about a safe en sense-able play with consent between the two of you, when guided and making steps. Only with your consent en matching your experience. Sending keys is never a good idea not knowing each other. It can only by building trust. And trust takes time. Just build experience in an sense-able and safe way. You should be able to unlock your device anytime it is required..... A 'real' Dominant knows that and guide you matching your experience and explore your preferences....
« Last Edit: June 24, 2019, 10:47:58 PM by knox_ »

Re: First time locked
« Reply #6 on: June 25, 2019, 10:17:37 AM »
There is trust, don't worry. There is also a way of getting the keys if I submit to a forfeit. He's a very experienced Master and I feel perfectly safe with Him. Thanks for voicing concern. I agree that this can only work if both parties trust.

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Offline knox_

Re: First time locked
« Reply #7 on: June 25, 2019, 10:06:39 PM »
Wish you all the best and fun while being locked!